There are certain actions and behavior that can either benefit or hurt the outcome of your divorce proceeding. Please read on to learn more about some of the “dos” and “don'ts” of divorce.
What to Do When Facing a Divorce
If you are going through the divorce process, or even if you have recently completed the divorce process, you should try to do the following:
Comply with any and all court orders including privileges or restrictions
Maintain good co-parenting practices with your spouse
Know the total balance of any joint checking and savings bank accounts
Seek out a CPA or accountant to help review the tax implications of your divorce
Know the balance of your retirement plans, 401(k), pension plan, etc.
If any part of your retirement plans were acquired prior to the marriage, attempt to obtain a statement of the balance in your account(s) as close to the date of marriage as possible
Examine your credit history
Get a credit report
Be aware of your household budget and expenses
Collect your real estate deeds, mortgage documents, and at least the last three tax returns you have filed, whether jointly or separately
Make a copy of your and your spouse’s last three pay stubs from employment
Keep a journal to document the exchange and pick up of your children
Keep a list of, or copy of checks, for money paid to your spouse
Pay your child support on time
Change the passwords to all of your email accounts
Change the passwords to all of your social media sites
When filling out your inventory, disclose all assets and liabilities
Seek help for any alcohol or illegal substance abuse
What Not to Do When Facing a Divorce
Now that you are aware of the positive actions you can take when facing a divorce, it is also important to consider the actions that could negatively affect your divorce proceedings. Do not do the following:
Withhold information from your attorney
Post information regarding your divorce on social media
Post content on social media that can be used against you
Withhold visitation from your spouse for their failure to make child support payments
Discuss the case with your children or use them as intermediaries
Criticize your spouse in front of your children
Buy real estate or any extravagant items while the divorce is pending
Sell property without the court’s permission
Increase your debt while the divorce is pending
Give large contributions to anyone during the proceedings
Send negative emails, texts, messages, etc. to your spouse
Start another romantic relationship during the proceedings
Bring a new significant other around your children or the court hearings
Get pregnant or get anyone pregnant
Remove children from their current school
Move out of state with your children
Contact the Law Offices of Katherine K. Wagner
Do not face complex divorce and family law matters alone. With over 25 years of experience, the Law Offices of Katherine K. Wagner is dedicated to providing you with the knowledge and skill your case deserves. We will fight to protect your rights, your financial security, and your children. Contact the Law Offices of Katherine K. Wagner today for a consultation.
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